RESPECT! Find out what it means to..us.

CAUTION: This post isn't about vacations, traveling, the cute shoes and clothes that Asos currently has, or about make-up and hair tips that will help you look just like the self-proclaimed blogger models of this era. To be quite honest, I've seen enough of those to last a lifetime as of late. Today we want to write about a few things that have consistently been weighing on our minds, and are of great importance to our little fam. Lately I feel like I have seen so many blog posts on the crazy ways of our society, and how they are affecting us as individuals and families. Blogs are exploding with articles about the filth that media is becoming (and mostly has always been), and how natural human decency is quickly being erased from daily life. It's good to be aware of all of these things, but the question we should be asking ourselves is, "What am I going to do about it?"

This is something I have struggled with in my life- The ability to share my opinions and testimony of how we can have eternally happy families, without offending someone who may share  different beliefs than I hold. However, on certain topics I feel I need to be more vocal. 

GIRLS: Let me start off with the messages that media is screaming at us: Sex is dirty, violent, animalistic, non-committal, spur of the moment, casual, and inconsequential. Guys only want girls who are "sexy"(whatever that means), and will show a lack of respect for themselves mentally, emotionally, and physically. Hollywood will tell girls they need to have thicker eyelashes, bigger breasts, smaller hips, skinnier legs, and more volumptuous lips.These things make you valuable and desired. Blogs everywhere are telling you that if you are physically beautiful your life will be full and complete. That you need to show off your body, because after all, that's what grabs people's attention. It doesn't matter what kind of person you are, the goals you have accomplished, or that you are one of the most intelligent generations this world has ever seen. 

Being preggers has caused me to do a lot of self-reflecting about my purpose in life, and what things really are going to matter in the end. Embarrassingly enough, I have to admit that gaining weight for this little diva growing inside of me has been an interesting experience, and I have found myself looking at other moms who seem to have gained like 2 pounds on their pregnancies and become a little envious at times. I think I can finally say though, that even though I really can't wait to get to wear jeans that have a real button on them again, I couldn't be more satisfied with the way I am choosing to use this sacred temple God has given me. Knowing that I am going to be the mom to a precious, perfect little baby, makes everything oh so worth it. God doesn't care that I'm not a size 2 right now, and neither does my awesome hubby, so why should I? 

The same should go for all you girls reading this right now. You are beautiful simply because you are, and that will never change. Isn't that the coolest? Your opinions matter. Your contribution to society matters. You are a future mother and/or wife. You are intelligent and beautiful because you know Who's you are. You are a best friend. A role model. You are a problem solver, a bad day listener, and a fixer of hurt hearts. You can change the world through your kindness and your love. Please don't settle for less than your best.  

GUYS: They tell you that porn is cool, that everybody watches it, and that the pinnacle of the human experience is sex. Take a minute and imagine, what if those pictures you are viewing were special girls in your life? Would you still be supporting this industry? They lure you in with catchy songs, funny movies, and clever advertisements. Pornography is poison. It is as addictive as any illegal drug. Physically, emotionally, and mentally, this virtual drug takes over your body and changes you. It takes away your ability to love one person and be devoted to her. After viewing pornography, you feel ashamed of yourself. Just like a drug, you are brought down and the only way out is to view again. The spiral down is pervasive among men young and old. If you are caught in this trap, you can get out. Shun pornography like the plague, talk to someone you trust, and get help. Don't wait. Marriages are falling apart, children are losing hope, families are deteriorating - don't let this be your story. As a man, you have so much to offer and can show the people around you how to respect women. Happily ever afters really do exist.

ERRYBODY: We owe it to ourselves to start acting against the grain. Starting with rejecting the disgusting songs that are currently on the radio. How can we possibly hate on Miley, call her a disgusting female, and then go listen to her song that was obviously talking about everything she did on stage that was so repulsive at the VMA's? If it's not appropriate to act out, it isn't appropriate to listen to either. Not to mention she currently has 2 songs on the top 20 in itunes right now. Like, what??? Apparently we didn't care too much. Sorry Miley, we don't want you to act out your songs, we just like listening to them! Poor girl. No wonder she's so confused.

Everything we see, hear, and participate in, affects who we are. So next time a song comes on, or a TV show starts playing, ask yourself,  "Is this promoting the culture we so desperately need to change?"

PREACHIN':I know that our Heavenly Father has a plan for each of us, and that the only way to live happy lives is through following Christ, and using the atonement in our daily lives. None of us are perfect. We all fall short, and sometimes feel like we are alone in this chaotic and loud world, but the Big Guy Upstairs is always looking out for us and loves us more than we can really fathom. 


Peace and Buhlessings!!!

-JAG 


(Jeff and Aurielle Geddes)

1+1=3

Since our last post, quite a bit has happened at the Geddes household. One thing I have learned this summer is that life can seem bland, especially when work and school never seem to end. However, as I look back on the past few months, I realize life is as vibrant as we paint it to be. We are SO blessed, and what a shame to pass by all of our blessings without ever acknowledging they are there. It really is the little things in life that bring us so much peace and happiness. We love our families, we love the gospel of Jesus Christ, and we love our new little baby Geddes to be. Most of all, we love that this family can be together forever.

Welp, without further adieu- heres our rockin' summer of 2013:

 Provo City Half Marathon

Rock Climbing for FHE

 Hanging out with baby chicks at the Duck Dynasty party

On our way home to TX for my sissys HS graduation

 

One of my two favorite four legged Texans

 Temple date night

 My beautiful, wonderful sisters.

 We found out we are having a BABY!!!

 Went paddle boarding in Lake Tahoe during Brad and Camille's wedding

 Weddings and more weddings...

 My first breakfast besides rice cakes and crackers:))

 So thankful for this loyal lady right here.

 Lake Tahoe

 Decker Geddes outing

 Geddes Wedding

 How cute are these two?? Love them!

 Goodbye HS- Hello A&M

Andddd I'm now 14 weeks prego. Ta Da!

Honeymooners

                                                                      

Soooo it's actually been a few months since our wedding, but we finally went on our honeymoon this past week. We decided last minute to fly to the gorg country of Costa Rica, rent a car, and see as much as we possibly could. We hiked, rapelled, ziplined, and went free-falling through the rainforests. We bungee jumped, ate both terrible and wonderful food, and paid way too much for bottled water. We played with monkeys and watched sloths, and became total beach bums for a day or two. We got lost (literally) for hours in the hectic streets of San Jose and spoke Spanish with American accents.

I absolutely loved getting to travel, explore, and be adventurous with my hubs! But in all honesty, I feel like every week is exciting and wonderful in a simple kind of way. We don't have to travel the world to be in love or like being with each other- we just do. For that, I am forever grateful.

One of my most favorite things we did while in CR was going to our church there. It was such a strengthening and neat experience to get to go to a whole different country, and still be able to feel the same strength, faith, and love through the Gospel of Jesus Christ. How cool that even in this poverty ridden part of the country they still believe and are such faithful members of the church. We were so blessed to be able to attend service with these humble members!

One of the Hymns we sang during Sacrament meeting. Different language, same beautiful Spirit.

Getting ready to go bungee jumping.. what a rush!

The view from our balcony every morning.

Part of the rainforest reserve in CR. Breathtaking.

Two happy little gringos.

Tarzan swingin it up. I obviously wasn't doing it right haha

Jeff looking like he knows what he is doing.

The tide got so high that I had to move my towel because the waves were soaking it!

Zipling like a champ.

<3

The only decent meal we had in CR. And it was FAB!

Because everyone needs a duck face pic in CR.

BUNGEEE

Such grace.

Paradise.

Just monkeying around

This hottie is also the sweetest, most loyal, and gentle human I have ever met.

Weekend Warriors

Howdy Y'all!

This has been such a crazy, insane, and fun week for us Geddes'. We have crammed for tests until we felt like we were dying, played games with our friends until we cried of laughter, I began training for my new job, and we got to spend some really amazing time together at our favorite place in Provo, the Temple.

 

Jeff and I were invited to come crash two of our favorite people's house for dinner and scattergories. Sarah is seriously the best cook ever. Every time we go over there, something gourmet is cooking. This time it was chicken tortilla soup (my fave), and stuffed bell peppers. Then we played scattergories, and I learned that Jeff can be quite creative with his responses at times...:) Needless to say, I won. Well, Almost..

 

 

 Then it was temple date night for us for the week. We got to do sealings for some of my ancestors who have passed away. Seriously, such a special experience. This sounds cheesy, but every time we come to this special place together, our love grows sweeter, and deeper. I love him so much!

 

 

 

We were starved when we left, so Jeff surprised me and brought me to one of my favorite restaurants, OG (olive garden, obviously). 

 

 

 

 

And finally, today we got the opportunity to give talks on the atonement at church. I loved being able to reflect on the Savior, and his sacrifice for us, especially around this very special time of year. One scripture I came across had a huge impact on how I began to think of Christ, and how his love can change us:

John 14:"Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you; Not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid."

 

Jeff's talk was awesome, per usual, and one thing that I really loved that he spoke about, was how we all have times in our lives when we feel like we can't get up, or are just kind of stuck. It is exactly those times that the Lord will pick us up and bring us back into his arms, through the atonement, and help us to feel the immense love he has for each one of us, individually.